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His Needs, Her Needs Knowledge Check
Test your mastery of the core principles.
Question 1 of 4
What is the primary function of the Love Bank?
Explanation: The Love Bank is the psychological mechanism that tracks emotional deposits and withdrawals, directly determining the level of romantic attraction.
Question 2 of 4
How should a couple handle highly polarized needs like Affection and Sexual Fulfillment?
Explanation: Affection and sexual fulfillment are often polarized but equally critical; satisfying them requires a coordinated, unselfish trade-off.
Question 3 of 4
What does the Policy of Joint Agreement (POJA) require?
Explanation: The POJA states that couples should never do anything without an enthusiastic agreement, eliminating resentment and power struggles.
Question 4 of 4
Why is eliminating 'Love Busters' considered more urgent than making new deposits?
Explanation: Love Busters cause rapid, catastrophic drains on the Love Bank; stopping the bleeding is the first step to saving any relationship.
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His Needs, Her Needs Action Plan
Design a specific system you can start today.
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The Emotional Needs Audit
Identify and rank your top 5 emotional needs, and have your partner do the same. Compare the lists to identify gaps.
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Love Buster Identification
Identify the top 2 Love Busters (e.g., angry outbursts, selfish demands) that you commit to eliminating immediately.
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The 15-Hour Rule Implementation
Schedule 15 hours of undivided attention this week for conversation and recreational companionship.
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Your Immediate Next Action
Declare the single immediate physical action you commit to taking today.
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